Hair Cut

I am sure all of us go to barbershop  at least once in several months. We can ask for hair cutting, hairstylish, or hair colour. 

I had hair cut a few week ago. And suddenly I realize that it was too short. My chubby cheek become more obvious. I have to wait for another several weeks to make it grow longer and I can fix the model.

The same thing happen with our words. Our tongue are like double-edge knife. We can use it to build or to destroy. And once it happened, we can not just take it back again or make a revision. People will remember. It will take a long, long time to fix the broken heart because of the bad words. It need a lot of good words, encouraging and supporting words to seal the broken heart caused by one bad word.

So I try to remember, that I don't want to be hurt by others, so I try not to hurt others. But sometimes, when we are close with someone, we feel freely to hurt her / him. I have to learn, that our closest friends or mates, are usual persons. They are not always be able to forgive when they were hurted. 

This is my precious lesson. Like hair cut, word cut can not be "undo". Once it said, then we can see the impact. So choose only good words to build others inspite of destroy them. Even to our enemies (or someone who treated you badly), just use good words to communicate, otherwise you just blow up the problems.